Showing posts with label Tats. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tats. Show all posts

Monday, June 14, 2010

Tats and poking the bear


My wild side really likes this. My sister in law has several tats my favorite being the daisy anklet. But don't go overboard, otherwise it can just looks like graffiti. When I lived in Hawaii, I dated a guy for like a month and he tattooed my name on his arm. He was an army guy from Colorado, so I guess he thought we were destined for each other. I just got creeped out and was finished after that. I had heard that he went back and had squiggly lines tattooed through my name to conceal it.  A group of girls from college went and got matching tattoos on their ankles.  Teddy bears are dumb...

Secretly I long for a tat in an inconspicuous place. I've mentioned this before. I will never follow through with my secret desire. My church teaches that our bodies are our temple, and I mostly agree. Besides, KT would probably have a fit! I want to get a temporary and freak him out. Wouldn't that be fun? Being an instigator can be terribly exciting.

Have you ever poked the bear so to speak? KT and I do that to each other all the time. For so long, I would just get PO'd at him. Now I just laugh and poke him right back. I sat through a church lesson recently that defined successful and unsuccessful marriages. According to the list, I have an unsuccessful marriage. My marriage is filled with teasing and sarcasm. The difference is we both know it is in fun. I think I would be worried if suddenly our marriage became tame and respectful. That is the zest that keeps us going. We were counseled to laugh a lot in our marriage...That we do!

Now the randomness of my thoughts has me concerned about my mental health.  How can you get from one idea to the other.  Point A to B.  KT says it's a woman thing.  He doesn't follow half of what I say.  I usually get the absent minded nod from him.  I know you know of what I speak.  That thing that husbands do when they hear you but not really?  Give me a nod if you understand.  That's right!

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...